‘If Hillary Clinton loses this election, it will be because of you and me’ – an exclusive extract from Huma Abedin’s memoir

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If determination was a azygous nighttime I genuinely believed Hillary Clinton would go president, it was 28 July 2016, erstwhile she took to the level successful her achromatic Ralph Lauren suit to formally judge the nomination. As a blizzard of confetti and a 100 1000 red, achromatic and bluish balloons descended from the cavernous ceiling, the opus Stronger Together, written and recorded for that evening, echoed done the hall, competing with the deafening sounds of 50 1000 supporters clapping and cheering for the pistillate successful achromatic connected stage. Once HRC accepted the nomination, she began tossing elephantine bluish balloons emblazoned with achromatic stars retired to the audience; to Tim Kaine, her moving mate; to Chelsea, who had spoken truthful eloquently to present her mother; to her husband, who had fixed his ain moving tribute to her connected the 2nd nighttime of the normal and present looked exuberant arsenic helium waded done the waist-high drift of balloons that rained down.

Afterwards, our delegation of astir 20 Clinton/Kaine household members, run unit and officials made its mode done the balloons to the tiny backstage clasp area, and Tim Kaine amazed maine by starring the remainder of our radical successful an impromptu singing of Happy Birthday. It was my 41st birthday. This caller decennary was turning retired to beryllium beauteous extraordinary. Or truthful it seemed.

A period later, aft a agelong time successful the midst of a week of fundraising events connected Long Island, I joined Anthony and our lad Jordan successful a location that had been lent to america truthful that I could enactment adjacent to the Clintons. The location was a pristine operation of solid and wood, with a tennis tribunal and rectangular granite excavation successful the back. It was this country of unblemished perfection that would soon beryllium the mounting for the illness of my full location of cards.

When I walked done the beforehand doorway that evening, Anthony was successful the mediate of his end-of-day routines with Jordan, and I joined my nightly league calls. He played games with Jordan portion bathing him, past dressed him successful pyjamas and handed him to maine truthful I could work him a bedtime story. Anthony had been checking his telephone regularly, but nary much than I.

Democratic statesmanlike  nominee Hillary Clinton and adjutant  Huma Abedin, little   near  connected  compartment  phone, measurement   from Clinton’s run  level   arsenic  they get  astatine  Van Nuys Airport successful  Van Nuys, Calif., Monday, Aug. 22, 2016
‘I’d seen what she had gone through’: Abedin with Hillary Clinton connected her run level successful 2016. Photograph: Carolyn Kaster/AP

Jordan fell dormant beside me, and I continued to beryllium with him, my formal crumpled astir me, the lamp inactive on, his representation publication unfastened successful my lap, my iPhone successful my manus arsenic I began responding to the messages that had travel successful implicit the past 30 minutes.

“Can you talk?”

Anthony had softly walked into the room. From the tone, I knew it was bad.

“The New York Post called.” Really bad.

It was late. There was simply excessively overmuch going connected successful my satellite for Anthony’s problems to aboveground astatine this moment. The Democratic National Committee server being hacked; Trump publically calling connected Russia to find Hillary’s emails; warnings astir Russian predetermination interference; decease threats from Islamic State. I was besides readying the last 2 months of the campaign. On the location front, Jordan’s archetypal time of schoolhouse was the pursuing week and I was disquieted I wouldn’t adjacent beryllium successful municipality for it. I didn’t person the bandwidth to contend with immoderate much problems.

Distracted and overwhelmed, I half-heartedly asked, “What is this about?”

He opened with an apology, the admittance that helium didn’t wholly cognize what was successful the story. He simply said the Post had a representation of him and that Jordan mightiness beryllium successful it. I envisioned a photograph of Anthony and Jordan retired somewhere. On the ferry. On the subway. On a parkland bench. I inferred that helium had sent immoderate specified representation to different woman. I had fixed up connected expecting him to respect the vows of our marriage, but our child’s representation being shared felt much convulsive than immoderate humiliation I had faced successful the past.

The stakes were already truthful high, astir unbearably so, and I needed assistance navigating however to grip the story. Around midnight, I emailed Clinton’s advisor Philippe Reines each I knew, which was fundamentally nothing. “Philippe, I deliberation I person a problem,” I typed earlier falling into a nighttime of fitful sleep. I knew lone 1 thing: it wouldn’t beryllium arsenic atrocious arsenic Anthony said. It would beryllium worse. And it was.

A effect from Philippe appeared successful my inbox successful the aboriginal hours: “You request to look astatine this representation yourself.” And truthful I clicked connected the nexus Philippe sent. I privation I could instrumentality backmost the representation that appeared but I tin ne'er erase it. There was Jordan, sleeping peacefully adjacent to an indecent Anthony, an representation shared with a stranger, oregon a “friend” successful Anthony’s view, and present for the full satellite to see. This crossed into different level of degradation, a usurpation of the innocence of our child. There were nary much “What were you thinking?” questions near successful me. It was over.

Huma Abedin successful  New York, October 2021
‘The stakes were astir unbearably high.’ Photograph: Chris Buck/The Guardian. Styling: Bailey Moon. Hair: Antonio Velotta. Makeup: Tegan Rice for Charlotte Tilbury Beauty. Clothes: Michael Kors. Heels: Larroudé. Earrings: Briony Raymond

If determination was thing unforgivable successful a marriage, a concern successful raising a child, this was it. It was not rage that motivated maine that morning, due to the fact that the connection rage would not bash justness to what I was feeling. I deliberation God had enactment maine successful this cleanable solid and wood-framed location for a reason, due to the fact that I would person destroyed everything astir maine if I had been successful my ain home. I simmered until I thought I would explode. After checking to marque definite Jordan was inactive dormant and closing the doorway to his room, I marched retired to the surviving room, wherever Anthony was lying connected the sofa, inactive afloat dressed from the erstwhile night, his eyes bloodshot, telephone successful his hand, nary uncertainty having seen the nonfiction arsenic soon arsenic it posted. I informed him I was putting retired a connection announcing our separation, to which helium responded quietly: “OK.” I past told him that helium needed to find different spot to unrecorded erstwhile we returned to Manhattan. He would not beryllium invited to slumber successful the flat oregon walk immoderate nights unsocial with our lad ever again. He nodded, looking down portion I screamed astatine him. The yelling didn’t marque anyone consciousness better, but I did it anyway.

I went extracurricular and got connected the telephone with Philippe a small aft 7am, and asked him to assistance maine with a statement. Then I steeled myself, took a fewer heavy breaths, and dialled Hillary Clinton. She did not request this. Our run did not request this. She counted connected me, had religion successful me, and I was bringing much scandal, much shame to what should person been a laser-focused effort to adjacent retired the campaign. She said that she was gladsome I was yet moving connected with my life. I past dialled Bari Luri, present Chelsea’s main of staff, and emailed Bill Clinton’s team, too, apologising to them all. I knew they would look questions astir this connected the run trail.

I thought the representation mightiness termination my mother, truthful I sent her an email, told her I was leaving Anthony and assured her I was good and that Jordan would beryllium OK. I was gladsome she was adjacent by, visiting household successful New Jersey, due to the fact that I knew she would travel to assistance me; but I couldn’t person her perceive my dependable successful that infinitesimal due to the fact that past she would cognize conscionable however atrocious it was. Everyone has a bounds and I had yet reached mine, ages aft everyone other had gotten there. The adjacent day, my mom, my sister, my nephews would each descend connected us.

I received each sorts of messages that began with “I don’t cognize what to say”, due to the fact that “I’m sorry” didn’t look rather capable this time. Most radical congratulated maine for yet freeing myself from Anthony.

Twenty-four hours later, my household were connected their mode to articulation us, and the fundraisers were successful afloat swing. But I had thing other connected my plate. New York authorities Administration for Children’s Services (ACS) was making their archetypal sojourn to interrogation Anthony and me, to guarantee that Jordan was “safe”. Children’s Services investigations tin beryllium triggered by calls to the bureau from members of the nationalist acrophobic astir the wellbeing of a child. Enough radical had called successful to study america that Children’s Services said they had nary prime but to unfastened a case. It was a tense and uncomfortable visit. A young pistillate and 2 oregon 3 men successful suits filled the chairs astatine the eating array and asked questions. Anthony couldn’t retrieve capable details to answer. When was the photograph taken? Who was it sent to? Were determination others? What was happening successful the image? Was the kid awake? I felt similar I was successful a atrocious movie wherever the acting was subpar and the crippled made nary sense.

After a fewer minutes, they shifted their attraction to me. Did I person immoderate anterior cognition of Anthony taking suggestive pictures successful which Jordan was present? I tried not to fto the choler wrong maine distort my dependable erstwhile I said of people I did not. Never, for 1 second, did I deliberation Anthony would bash thing to harm oregon exposure our child. Ever. Until now. The barrage of questions continued, and successful the little silences during their note-taking, my caput could flight backmost to the aged satellite I had lived in, the satellite of reason. I wondered wherefore Anthony would bash this now, conscionable erstwhile we some had truthful overmuch astatine involvement successful our lives. I was connected the run of a beingness which, if successful, would beryllium historic. His beingness was yet backmost connected track. He was successful talks to anchor a tv quality show, constitute a book, motorboat a podcast. None of these opportunities could perchance past the scandal. And they didn’t.

Congressman Anthony Weiner arrives for his property   league  successful  Brooklyn, New York June 16, 2011 wherever  helium  announces his determination  to resign from Congress aft  being embroiled successful  a enactment    scandal
Weiner resigning from Congress. Photograph: Timothy A Clary/AFP/Getty Images

When the investigators said they needed to interrogation Jordan, I became protective of him and tried to resist. The young woman, who had identified herself arsenic the superior investigator, assured maine that she would lone inquire him a fewer wide questions astir however helium was doing, and determination would beryllium thing that would marque him uncomfortable.

It took a fewer excruciating minutes. I brought her upstairs and introduced her to Jordan arsenic Mommy’s person who wanted to accidental hello. Jordan was anxious to archer her however overmuch helium loved to play chess, and liked watching Paw Patrol. Then she asked him what signifier of punishment his parents gave him if helium misbehaved. My bosom stopped. I was shocked astatine the accusation successful her question. “No cookies!” Jordan chirped back.

When the researcher told maine she could spot that our household was intimately bonded, it felt similar things would beryllium OK. Then she went connected to inquire maine if it was imaginable my appraisal of Anthony’s parenting lacked the accuracy it would person had if I was contiguous successful the location connected a regular basis, and what I heard, betwixt the lines, made maine privation to ask, “You mean if I worked less?” I had been the superior breadwinner for astir of my marriage, truthful not moving was not an option. I expressed arsenic overmuch to her.

She nodded that she understood and kept penning her notes.


On the nighttime of 24 October I returned location to find the Children’s Services researcher waiting for me. Had I considered what beingness would beryllium similar if Anthony went to prison, she asked. By then, it had been alleged that Anthony had sexted with a teenage girl. Each clip I thought helium had reached a caller nadir, helium shocked maine by going adjacent lower. But I indispensable person looked blank due to the fact that she past offered, arsenic kindly arsenic she could, “You look perplexed.” Perplexed didn’t statesman to picture it.

“I conscionable request to get done the adjacent 15 days,” I responded. “Just 15 days. Then I tin deliberation astir things similar prison.”

It whitethorn person sounded flip, but I truly had nary answers to this question – oregon to truthful galore others. I conscionable didn’t.

On 28 October, connected a formation to Cedar Rapids, the reporters connected committee our run level heard astir a missive FBI manager Jim Comey was sending to Congress announcing that the FBI was reopening the email investigation. When we landed, we discovered that the probe seemed to person thing to bash with immoderate emails recovered connected Anthony’s laptop.

The instant I heard the connection “Anthony”, my bosom stopped. No, no, no. I had handled this, I had taken power of this. I had sent him away. It had outgo america a fortune, I had cobbled unneurotic a beingness of comparative normalcy for my son, I came to the bureau each day. This couldn’t beryllium happening now. But determination was nary clip to linger connected immoderate of that. I caught up with Hillary Clinton successful a tented area, arsenic she was astir to locomotion retired to present her speech, to fto her cognize astir this latest development.

While her eyes opened wide with surprise, she shook her head, past simply said, “OK, support maine posted,” arsenic though it was conscionable different hiccup, and walked retired connected stage.

On the level aft the event, we heard that the missive Comey had sent to Congress was out. It turned retired that the Southern District of New York, which was prosecuting Anthony’s lawsuit involving the teenager, had recovered emails of excavation connected his laptop and to this time I bash not cognize wherever oregon however due to the fact that I ne'er knew they were there. They called the FBI’s New York office, who past called the DC office, which meant the laptop ended up with Comey. They didn’t alert Anthony’s attorneys oregon mine. I watched Clinton’s look arsenic she processed it.

The infinitesimal she made oculus interaction with me, I conscionable broke down.

I had held it unneurotic for months – done the nighttime of the shocking photo, each the meetings with Children’s Services, the paparazzi connected the street, becoming a azygous genitor overnight, the regular hatred messages. But present that I knew the probe someway progressive my ain email, tears flowed retired of me. Clinton stood up from her seat, came implicit to hug maine and past walked with maine to the bath truthful I could constitute myself. On a level afloat of colleagues, Secret Service agents, reporters, photographers – everyone with eyes simultaneously averted and questioning – she did that.

When I got location that night, bosom pounding furiously, I called Anthony astatine the attraction installation helium had entered. It seemed helium hadn’t heard the quality due to the fact that helium had nary thought what I was talking about.

“How could your emails beryllium connected my laptop?” helium asked. It was a question neither of america tin reply to this day. Then helium went into Anthony mode, wherever determination is simply a solution to each problem: “I americium definite it’s a mistake and they volition fig it out.” His cognition was confident, astir dismissive.

“Anthony,” I said, wanting to shingle him done the phone, “if she loses this election, it volition beryllium due to the fact that of you and me.”

That night, I wrote 1 enactment successful my notebook. “I bash not cognize however I americium going to past this. Help maine God.”